Tween Trick-Or-Treating Alone – Ha!

Tweens want their independence- how ready are you both?

Want to hear something absolutely hilarious?  So funny that it gave us all a good laugh and I still chuckle thinking about it.  Our tweens have asked us if they could go trick-or-treating alone this year!  As our amiga Bohemian Babushka would say, “Ju so foni!”

Cristy, my sister and I had a good laugh when Olivia, Cristy’s tween, asked her. Even a “Tia” (without children) recognizes that its absolutely out of the question. After the laughter died down, Olivia followed it up with her own rationale, “Yeah, my Abuela would definitely never let me!”

When Olivia pulled the “Abuela card” I had to stop and think. Are we upholding an outdated tradition and saying no because we weren’t allowed?

I was never allowed to go trick-or-treating by myself.  My Abuela Yeya who loved Halloween would take us around the neighborhood.  While she was visitando con los vecinos, we stuffed our bags with candy. I never questioned her presence.  So why does my daughter?

Are we just being overprotective? Is it possible to be overprotective?  Not in my world so lets move on!

Or are we just saying no because we have legitimate safety concerns?  Tricky question this is.

Do I believe my daughter is old enough to go down the block with two of her friends and trick or treat?

Well sure, I know most of our neighbors and would trust her to make good judgements.  I can’t secretly watch from the front yard.  Heck, it is Halloween you never know what kinds of scary things are lurking.

In the end, the Abuelas win again and we’ll be closely monitoring all trick-or-treating activity!  What do you think?  Are your tweens allowed to go trick-or-treating alone?  Are we being overprotective?

 

Let’s talk.. Hablamos.

Cristy Clavijo-Kish
Cristy is the founder and publisher of Los Tweens & Teens, as well as the co-CEO & partner of DiMe Media, based in Miami. Born to Cuban parents, she's a 'Jersey Girl' who is the proud mom of twin teens and wife to her college sweetheart, a "gringo" with a Latino soul! Cristy is also a teen cancer survivor, lover of travel, tech, good food, all-things beauty related, family cooking and social sharing.

2 thoughts on “Tween Trick-Or-Treating Alone – Ha!

  1. LOVE being quoted- especially for such a good cause. Of course they need to be chaperoned! Hola!! Though I think the original issues (virtue, reputations, etc.) don’t come into play at this point, and here I interject it’s because of the excellent upbringing, the original issues unfortunately have been taken over by the “Pil DE LOCOS” wanting to do harm to our young ones.

    Especially on Halloween, y con una luna llena?? Without grownup protection??

    JU SO FONII!!!

    ; )

    Eat some pb cups en mi nombre & have a safe, fun TRICOTREE! BB2U

  2. I don’t think you’re being overprotective. (I’m Puerto Rican, so of course I don’t! )
    But I think by the time they are old enough to go out at night door to door to strangers’ homes, they won’t want to trick-or-treat anymore, so it works out nicely. 🙂

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